Sorry Toxic Macho Dudes - My Trans Friends Are Braver Than You
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S1 E16

Sorry Toxic Macho Dudes - My Trans Friends Are Braver Than You

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This episode jumps between anger, grief, forgiveness, politics, and unexpected hope — so, basically business as usual.
I talk about the Transgender Day of Remembrance, why transphobia makes me furious, and the weird emotional gymnastics required to stay human in a world that keeps dehumanizing people. I get into forgiveness (including forgiving the men who gay-bashed me decades ago), what “being the love I want to see” actually looks like, and why anger and resentment are not the same thing.
We also touch on:
 • Depression and the need for connection
 • Trump’s latest threat about “executing” people for telling troops to obey the law
 • How MAGA and far-right news ecosystems shape reality
 • The rise of Trump-like politics in places like the UK
 • Toxic masculinity, compassion fatigue, and why this podcast might be my therapy
Plus: listener calls from all over — some challenging, some funny, some deeply moving.
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Full episodes & links: https://thereisnogodandwereallgonnadie.transistor.fm/
  • (00:00) - Introduction and Show Overview
  • (02:24) - Struggles with Depression
  • (02:57) - National Day of Remembrance for Transgender People
  • (08:10) - Introduction and Call to Action
  • (11:23) - Global Politics and Its Impact
  • (13:26) - The Power of Trust and Media Influence
  • (16:13) - Personal Experiences with Hate Crimes
  • (21:30) - Forgiveness and Letting Go of Resentment
  • (26:05) - The Importance of Joy and Love in Society
  • (31:12) - Engaging with Hate and Finding Peace
  • (36:33) - Honesty and the Role of Media
  • (36:58) - Navigating News Sources
  • (41:22) - The Overwhelm of Information
  • (45:46) - Confronting Online Hate
  • (52:43) - The State of American Politics
  • (59:06) - Introduction and Friendships
  • (01:05:24) - The Importance of Gratitude
  • (01:11:50) - Navigating Anger and Joy
  • (01:13:29) - Letting Go of Destiny and Importance
  • (01:24:06) - Coping with Depression and Finding Joy

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