Someone Wanted to Decapitate Me for Being Gay
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S1 E27

Someone Wanted to Decapitate Me for Being Gay

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Well, good news: I did NOT get decapitated.

After a guy on Facebook told me he'd like to cut off my head, I somehow turned the whole thing into a comedy routine. Because when people say truly unhinged shit to you, sometimes laughing is the only reasonable response.

This week, we get into bigotry, threats, religion, LGBTQ+ community, toxic masculinity, and the strange things people apparently feel compelled to say on the internet.

A listener asks: What if you're wrong about God—and what if you're going to hell?

Another listener tells me about an LGBTQ+ bonfire party in Tennessee that attracted a whole lot of hateful Facebook comments, including an accusation that it's an "AIDS party" and the suggestion that someone should release rattlesnakes at the event.

Then things get unexpectedly personal.

A listener asks me to do an entire episode about Joe, my former fiancé and one of the most important people who ever came into my life. That sends me down a very personal road through addiction, sex work, recovery, music, love, loss, and the person who saw something in me when I couldn't see it in myself.

We also get a reading from Leviticus, a fascinating question about whether "homophobia" and "transphobia" are really the right words, and a final conversation about politics, authoritarianism, hope, and why waiting for the perfect political candidate can sometimes mean getting the worst possible outcome.

And somehow, after all of that, I still end up saying the same thing:
I love everybody.
Even assholes who want to cut my head off.
xoxo Daniel

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  • (00:00) - Daniel
  • (04:30) - Daniel — Take 02
  • (06:49) - Facing Homophobia with Humor and Resilience
  • (08:22) - The Power of Living Authentically
  • (08:22) - Daniel — Take 04
  • (18:11) - Introduction to the Conversation
  • (18:11) - Introduction and Community Engagement
  • (22:15) - LGBTQ+ Bonfire Party Discussion
  • (23:56) - Community Reactions and Support
  • (24:02) - Exploring Homophobic Comments and Reactions
  • (28:57) - The Impact of Mitch McConnell on American Politics
  • (32:31) - Personal Reflections on Love and Loss
  • (39:51) - Memories and Humor in Mourning
  • (41:32) - Reflections on Life and Influence
  • (42:28) - Questioning Religious Beliefs
  • (44:44) - Living Authentically as a Gay Man
  • (46:26) - Addressing Common Misconceptions about LGBTQ+ Issues
  • (48:43) - Understanding Homophobia and Transphobia
  • (53:05) - The Role of Ignorance in Hate
  • (55:24) - Political Commentary and Societal Evolution
  • (56:25) - The Death of a Distorted Conservatism
  • (58:17) - Hope for a More Enlightened Society

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